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TIPS FOR A HEALTHY D/s RELATIONSHIP (or interaction).

  • September 27, 2022
  • SIR D

This missive summarises the issues discussed in the last MEMBER DISCUSSION facilitated by Mestra and SIR D on the evening of August 23, 2022. It is an important topic. I hope you glean some insights from this summary. Your comments...

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Post NonVanilla Photo Shoot

  • August 22, 2022
  • Mestra

Another fun night is coming to an end and it's bitter sweet. I can feel the endorphins and adrenaline still coursing through my system and its helped along with a good few glasses of red wine at the tail end...

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THE PSYCHOLOGY OF D/s RELATIONSHIPS

  • August 22, 2022
  • SIR D

There are people who think that Dominance and submission and BDSM more broadly is abnormal, and to the extent that it is practiced by a minority of people (which it appears to be) it is abnormal. It is not however...

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KINK – A WORD THAT DEVALUES A LEGITIMATE LIFESTYLE?

  • July 20, 2022
  • SIR D

KINK – A WORD THAT DEVALUES A LEGITIMATE LIFESTYLE? My slave hates the word ‘’kink’’. She is also uncomfortable with the word ‘’scene’’, at least in so far as it is used to describe a sexual encounter. I am less...

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10 basic rules for slaves (by Flame Hel)

  • July 3, 2022
  • Mestra

When I started keeping slave-girls some years ago I decided that I needed a set of basic rules to be a guiding foundation for their submission. So I put together a set of basic rules and over the years I...

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The House Rules by Flame_Hel

  • July 3, 2022
  • Mestra

One of the first things that we needed to put in place for the Tbilisi Training House was a set of basic house rules for all submissives in the house to follow. These rules are based on various rules that...

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Submissive Rights by John D. Weal

  • July 3, 2022
  • Mestra

These rights are for submissives, not slaves, as all this should be covered in the slaves contract prior to signing. However, gross misuse of any of these can be considered abuse and can be punishable by law.Every submissive has a...

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LONG DISTANT POWER EXCHANGE

  • May 26, 2022
  • SIR D

Maintaining any relationship is complicated. Maintaining a long-distance D/s or power exchange relationship can be a whole lot harder. In this missive, I examine strategies for maintaining a long-distance power exchange relationship, as discussed in the Life’s Hierarchy online DISCUSSION...

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4 different hand signals, an OK signal, fingers crossed, thumbs up and open hand.

Non Verbal Communication – Hand Signals

  • May 5, 2022
  • Mestra

The use of hand signals in a D/s dynamic can be a beautiful thing. Being able to quietly signal to a submissive a need or want without disturbing the conversation is elegant. Having a submissive being discrete and unnoticeable, but...

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LIFE IS SHORT – REGRETS ARE MISERY

  • April 28, 2022
  • SIR D

 Every now and then, the death of a close loved one reminds us that life is short and tomorrow is promised to no one. The wise among us are also reminded that while we ALL die, many fail to live....

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Life’s Hierarchy is a club for serious people who live or enjoy Dominance/submission, want to get started on a D/s journey, and are interested in the many associated lifestyles and fantasies. ​

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