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‘Drop’ is the depletion of hormones in the body and neurotransmitters in the brain after a peak in levels during play. They include adrenaline, oxytocin, dopamine and serotonin. Although mostly associated with slaves and submissives, anyone participating in play can...

Going out to dinner can, of course, involve anything from cheap and cheerful Chinese through to sophisticated dining at one of the cities silver service restaurants. Most cities have hundreds of cheap and cheerful Chinese restaurants and a few good...

The New South Wales opposition is preparing to introduce legislation to ‘protect’ women in particular, and Australians more broadly, from ‘coercive control’. Should this legislation be passed, it would mandate penalties of up to 10 years gaol. ‘Coercive control’, sometimes...

The Wartenberg Wheel - This device has came from the vanilla world. It was a medical tool for neurological purposes, used to test nerve reactions and sensitivity as it is rolled across the skin. A Wartenberg wheel is generally made...

There are lots of other checklists out there on the web. This is a concoction from a few, feel free to use/edit as you wish. This one includes service which I haven’t seen on others. This is a STANDARD checklist....

I’ve recently been chatting online with a potential new s type. After we’d been chatting for a while I said to him “I’d enjoy you sending me an image (from the internet) of something you find erotic and a fun...

Generally speaking the difference between a slave and a submissive is that a slave don’t have any limits. A submissive retains their right to set limits. As always, the more you look into it, the more complicated it becomes. It’s...

Consent is a hard subject to write about. It’s emotional, it’s loaded, and many people have had super traumatic experiences with it. If you are talking about consent it’s often because there is a problem or violation and that can...

It seems to me that when people join the BDSM or Kink scene they expect it to be free of rules and restrictions. A Fet bubble where they can do what they want, to whom they want, freely. That perception...