JULY 20, 2021
LIFE’S HIERARCHY
Life’s Hierarchy is an exclusive club for professional people who live, want to live or want to explore the ‘Dominant’ or submission’ lifestyle and its many manifestations and associated fantasies.
JUNE/JULY PROGRAMME
Discussion – August 23 – ‘High Protocol Dinners.’
Podcasts – July 30 – July 30 – ‘My life my way interview’ – 3 new interviews
Webinar – July 28 – ‘Finding a slave’
Training – August 06, 18 and 23.
Next Newsletter – August 20
Blockbuster Blog – July 27
Events – July 24 – High Protocol Dinner.
See a whole lot more on Life’s Hierarchy – CLICK HERE
GO KINK SHOPPING
Life’s Hierarchy has a shop.
Every Month we aim to have an even larger range of quality products at competitive prices.
It is our policy to support local businesses where we can.
So if you are looking for a quality bargain or customers for your quality products take a look.
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PODCAST
Listen to an interesting interview with sub Bev
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There are many more just like this on the Life’s Hierarchy site
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WANT TO BE INTERVIEWED FOR A PODCAST?
Every month, I will try to record at least two interviews with Members to be published on the site as a podcast. The identity of the Members is of course kept confidential.
Interviews are audio only and take about 45 minutes to record. The resulting podcasts are available to all members and represent an excellent may of sharing experiences.
If you are happy to be interviewed and to reveal your deepest secrets – please email me on – lifeshierarchy@gmail.com
FEATURED STORY
Every month we will feature one story from Life’s Hierarchy. Here is this months.
SO BIG – SO BLACK
This installment comes from the kamikaze-esque period of my life known as my mid-twenties. Having spent the majority of my life in the Dallas area, I jumped at the opportunity to start a new company out in east Texas. That decision was confirmed as a good one when I found my place to live. It was a moderately sized man cave in the exact middle of nowhere. I loved it. I had a golf cart to patrol the neighborhood and drink with all my crazy neighbors. The community was at the edge of a lake, and my outdoorsy spirit soared. There was just one issue: I was lonely as fuck.
So in an attempt to rectify that loneliness I did the only thing that made sense: posted a Craigslist personals ad. Writing has always kind of been my thing, so of course I got a couple of decent responses. One of which was from a woman who started the conversation by saying that she was too old for me, and that I probably wouldn’t be interested. Out of curiosity I asked how old she was, and she replied, 47. Exactly 20 years older than me. Then she sent a picture, and the body that I saw WAS NOT 47. The wooing began.
I’d always had a thing for older women but “Miss Cougar”, as we will call her, was a whole new drug. She was just as naughty as I was and in no time we were talking about a rendezvous. I can honestly say that at this point and time in my life, this wasn’t a new concept. It was however the first time I was going to be with a woman who was so much more experienced and confident sexually. The fateful day approached and I made arrangements to “work from home” which involved drinking vodka at 10:00 in the morning.
I showered and tidied up my little man cave and waited anxiously for her to show up. When she did I was not at all disappointed. I was however slightly confused by the rolling bag she was toting behind her up my driveway from her car. We’d discussed her bringing some toys for us to play with, but I wasn’t expecting luggage to be involved. For a brief second, every true crime show and episode of Dexter I’d seen flashed though my head. I started to question this decision.
Then I had another vodka drink and no fucks were given about the luggage. We sat on my couch and made small talk, and finally she looked at me and said, “okay – I’m going to get dressed and we can get started.” Her bluntness turned me on immediately. So while she got “dressed” I got undressed down to my boxers and a t-shirt and laid on my bed. She came out of the bathroom in a heart-stoppingly sexy little neglige and strutted across the man cave, slowing to grab the handle of her bag, which she dragged to the bed.
She fell into me and a steamy make-out session ensued. She abruptly stopped and said, “You’re an excellent kisser. Good. So let’s see what I brought.” She drug the bag up on the bed and opened it up so that the top blocked my view of what was inside.
“Yep, this is where I get murdered and my skin is used to make a canoe,” I nervously thought.
She pulled out a standard-looking silver vibrator. “I like this one a lot,” she said placing it on the bed. She pulled out a rather big bottle of lube and said, “Lube is a lot of fun, even though I get really wet on my own.” I nodded like an idiot. “I reaaaaalllly like this one,” she said pulling out a “rabbit” vibrator, which I looked over and decided it was designed by NASA. She then pulled out a strap-on setup complete with a little purple dildo. “These are fun,” she said. My only response was a cocked eyebrow and quick shake of the head. That one went back in the bag. A few other sorted items came out and finally she said, “this one is my absolute, number one favorite.”
What came out of that bag changed my life. To say that this dildo was “big” would be like saying that the ocean in “damp”…
So Big. So Black.
This rubber dick was big enough to rob a bank with.
I was doing Chinese trigonometry in my head trying to figure out how that thing was supposed to be used, and she leaned over and kissed me. My mind immediately switched gears and I began dismantling her outfit until we were both naked.
Her pussy was tiny. Not little. TINY.
It was at that point I assumed the 2 pound black latex dick was just a joke. I went to work on her with my fingers, and I swear I couldn’t get two fingers in her. I have big hands. Manpaws, actually. She was squirming, moaning, and enjoying every second. I thought I was giving her the good stuff, and was focusing on what was going on. She added some lube and things got all slippery and hot.
That’s when she reached behind her and grabbed it. She swung that rubber dick at me like a cop using a nightstick, and when it hit me in the cheek, I fell off the back side of the bed. I peeked up over the edge of the bed expecting her to be in a rubber-dick-swinging frenzy, but she was just laughing hysterically and apologizing. I hid there for a second like a startled groundhog, when she started rubbing that tiny little pussy and said, “get back up here, silly.”
I obliged and started getting back to where we left off when I was struck with that weapon of a dildo. She looked at me and said, “Use it,” while dipping her chin in the general direction of the giant, scary black dildo…
So, I did. I picked it up, slightly weirded out by the realism of the giant vein that was molded into it. It took two hands to wield it. I could have killed a dragon with this fucking thing, and she wanted me to fuck her with it. By some vaginal miracle I got the head inside of her and she really started to go nuts. Inch by inch that giant black dick disappeared into her impossibly small pussy. I had to lean on it like I was driving a fence post, but damnit I fucked her with that giant black dick until she came so hard she almost passed out. When I let go of it, it shot out of her pussy like a North Korean missile launch, and we both collapsed on the bed.
Sweating and panting we just laid there and started giggling. I was genuinely worn out. I received a world class blowjob for my hard work and dedication, and again we were left panting and gasping.
I had to laugh out loud as she walked bow-legged to the bathroom to change back into her normal clothes and winced when she sat back down on the couch. Miss Cougar and I played a few more times, and “Tyrone” as I called it always made an appearance. Each time I got more comfortable, and even really began to enjoy it. I’ll never forget that first encounter with that giant black rubber dick. It was one of those moments in time. Especially when it hit me in the face.
Shared with permission (Justin6212 Fetlife)
NOTICE BOARD
Looking for a playmate? Looking for a couple to dine with? Looking for a waiter or driver – naked or in uniform? Looking for a cleaner or maid – of any gender? Looking for a male or female, Dominant or submissive? What ever you are looking for – send in your requirements to the Moderator for posting here.
To post your requirements on the Club notice board – email the Moderator – lifeshierarchy@gmail.com – and if it complies with the Clubs code, it will be posted in 24 hours.
Do you want to be a playmate? Do you want to dine with couples seeking company? Do you want to be a a waiter or driver – naked or in uniform? Do you want to be a cleaner or maid ? Do you want to offer yourself as a Dominant or submissive? What ever you are want to do – you might just find an opportunity here on our Club notice board. Alternatively you can post your own requirements here.
If you want to take up one of these opportunities, email the Moderator for more information on the opportunity listed here – quoting the number of the opportunity. Email – lifeshierarchy@gmail.com.
While this function has only just been launched there are already opportunities posted that Members might like to take up. Here is an example:
We require the services of male and female wait staff for very special dinners. Dinners will be held throughout the year at various locations in the Perth metropolitan area.
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MESTRA’S THOUGHT OF THE MONTH
What do you look for in a good Dominant, how do you choose a good submissive? There are long and involved answers and differences of opinion, however I’d argue one of the factors to at least consider is if they are extending their education.
One of the things I love about kink is the endless opportunities for learning, exploring and growth. The more I Iearn, the more opportunities to learn open up. The more I know, the more I become aware I don’t know.
A Dominant that doesn’t continue to educate themselves is dangerous, becomes stale and will likely start playing outside their knowledge set. A Dominant that continually learns is more likely to provide the safest experiences and increases what exciting play they can offer. I can’t count how many times a cheeky idea has come up and just has to be tested ‘for science’ .. which only happens safety with a Top prepared to educate themselves on the risks and skills required for the activity. If you’re vetting a new Dominant, pay attention to what workshops and discussion groups they’re going to (and what subjects they are learning about).
A slave/submissive is far more interesting and useful if they are constantly learning. Not only upskilling (learning skills to service a Dominant in shoe care or giving massages, how to set a formal dining table, keeping a butlers book, or how to clean, pack away and care for Master/Mistresses toys), but also for the s types self awareness and personal growth.
Educational classes and discussion groups also provide ideal opportunities to meet and socialise with other like-minded people, and to meet prospective new partners and assess them from afar.
We’re constantly adding information to Life’s Hierarchy, and welcome suggestions for additional resources and links.
Keep learning. Stay kinky.
xx Mestra
BLOCK BUSTER BLOGS
Watch out for the Life’s Hierarchy Block Buster Blog on the 27th of each months.
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CASUAL MENTORING SERVICES
All members can now book Mentoring sessions with one of our 4 Mentors – for a fee of $30.00
All you have to do is go to the SHOP and book a session with your preferred Mentor.
If you are interested in becoming a Mentor and feel you have the experience to support Members, please email – lifeshierarchy@gmail.com and register your interest.
MENTORING FOR PREMIUM MEMBERS
Premium Members can nominate a preferred mentor. Monthly mentoring sessions of 20-minute durations can then be scheduled on a monthly basis – or more frequently as required. This service is available to Dominant, submissive, male, female, heterosexual, bisexual, pansexual and homosexual, monogamous and polyamorous members.
Mentors can:
Provide comfort and support
Answer questions and concerns
Help address issues as they arise
Provide guidance and ideas
Offer a sounding board
Assist in developing a plan
Provide recommended actions
This service is unique to Life’s Hierarchy and exclusive to members of the club. This service is designed to ensure that members get the most out of their involvement in the D/s lifestyle and their various kinks.
No issues are off limits for discussion with mentors.
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TOPICS OF INTEREST
What topics are you interested in hearing about in:
Discussions
Webinars
Forums
Events
Training
Please email us with your suggestions – CLICK HERE
FORUM FOR MEMBERS
So really interesting conversations are underway on the Club FORUM. Have a look, post a comment or open your own discussion. It is easy and it is fun – CLICK HERE
MEMBER SERVICES
MEMBER services currently available include:
Forums – where you can discuss anything of interest
Stories – reading and writing great true and not so true stories
Group chat- chat with Club members in absolute privacy
Podcasts – learn more about the ins and outs of the D/s lifestyle
Discussions – listen to experienced players discuss their experiences
Webinars – an online learning programme
Opportunities – listings of opportunities for members in the community
Shop – where you can buy an increasing number of high-quality goods
Mentoring – one to one conversations with experienced senior members
Services to be launched in 2021 include:
Confessionals – the opportunity to confess and do penance
Gallery – the best Club photographs and videos
Match Making – to help you find play and life partners
Suggestions regarding additional services are most welcome.
Members are the heart and soul of Life’s Hierarchy and as such feedback from members is always welcome. Email – lifeshierarchy@gmail.com . Every enquiry will receive a response.
CODE OF CONDUCT
It is the ambition of the Mentors (the foundation Committee) to develop Life’s Hierarchy into a Club that adds real value to members of the BDSM community and devotees of Dominance and submission. Our highest priority will always be the welfare of our members and in particular their safety, security and privacy. Please bring to our attention any behaviour inconsistent with Club values. Those values include:
Discretion
Respect
Honesty
Honour
Consent
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SID D – Moderator