June 2022
UNE – JULY 2022 PROGRAMME
Podcasts – June 30 and July 30, 2022
Discussion – June 21 and July 26 2022
Our Life our way discussion – July 19
Webinars – TBC
Next Newsletter – July 20
Blockbuster Blog – June 27 and July 27 2022
See a whole lot more on Life’s Hierarchy – CLICK HERE
EDITORIAL
As we near the halfway point of the year, Life’s Hierarchy is preparing to undertake a number of site updates and a membership drive. We would welcome your thoughts on both.
We have a new series of discussions – entitled – OUR LIVES OUR WAY – launching on July 19. This will involve a series of discussions with a 24/7 slave and her OWNER. all aspects of their relationship dynamic will be addressed.
To help us boost Life’s Hierarchy membership, we would greatly appreciate your sharing this video with as many friends as possible. CLICK HERE
Please suggest things you would like to see incorporated into Life’s Hierarchy. This is a club for members and we want to provide what members need or would like to see. Email me – lifeshierarchy@gmail.com.
Finally, please take a moment to visit the Life’s Hierarchy marketplace. There is a wide range of products to loo look at. CLICK HERE
Thank you.
SIR D
IMORTANT FORUM DISCUSSION
”Is there a need for a group – to advocate for the D/s lifestyle?”
To join – CLICK HERE
MY LIFE AS A 24/7 SLAVE – A CONFIDENTIAL DISCUSSION
– JULY 19.
This is the first in a series of 5 discussions exploring the D/s dynamic of Slave l and her owner SIR D.
A D/s relationship can be enriching. It can also be hard work. A D/s relationship should be fun. It can also be challenging – especially when lived 24/7.
Join this discussion to hear what it is like to live 24/7 as a slave to a demanding owner. Hear about:
How slave ‘’l’’ became a slave.
The training of slave ‘’l’’.
Slave ‘l’’ knowing her place.
The rules and protocols by which slave ‘’l’’ has to live by.
The consequences of not following the rules and protocols.
The challenges slave ‘’l’’ faces each day.
The consequences of being a 24/7 slave.
The joys and rewards of being a 24/7 slave.
You can even ask slave ‘’l’’ questions.
Join us for this controversial and insightful discussion.
TO REGISTER – CLICK HERE
WORLD CLASS D/s FURNITURE
Check out the wold class – well priced – furniture on sale in our Life’s Hierarchy SHOP.
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D/s RELATIONSHIP TIP – No 1 to 5
All relationships are hard to maintain, but there are things that make D/s relationships especially hard to maintain at a high standard – including – the time involved, the on sided leadership in some D/s relationships, and the energy needed to plan and execute a scene.
Here are 5 tips to help you maintain a strong D/s relationship.
Embrace acknowledgement – watch for and acknowledge disconnection.
Always be transparency – ensure your partners know how you are feeling.
Try programming – schedule playtime.
Take responsibility – accept and embrace your responsibility always.
Avoid avoidance – avoid exceptions, and just do as you have planned.
These tips are 5 of many from the last monthly DISCUSSION.
To watch this DISCUSSION – CLICK HERE
GROUP CHAT GROUPS WORTH JOINING
Here are some Life’s Hierarchy GROUP CHATS, you might like to join:
Water Sports
Small Penis Humiliation
Polyamory, Non-traditional Relationships and Relationship Anarchy
Needle Play Skill Share.
Have your say on theses and a range of other topics.
A THOUGHT FROM MESTRA
One of the joys of being within the BDSM world (in my experience) are the amazing conversations with like minded people.
I recently attended a ‘vanilla’ event, and I was nervous it would be like a ‘nilla BBQ where the conversation can sometimes be a little stilted and there’s a norm to stick with safe topics of conversation. The conversation about guns in America or politics starts to creep up, and someone responsible does a quick derailment of what could have been enlightening and thought provoking topic back to a conversation about sports or the weather.
This vanilla event was populated mostly by kinky people, and the conversations reflected that. A casual conversation with a 3D print artist devolved (or developed) into a conversation about 3D printing nipple clamps, dildos, or multi-part hoods and phones where whipped out to search designs amid a lot of intense oohing and ahhing.
Conversations about art, family, business, work, cooking all happened, but there is the added colour and flavour of dipping into delightfully delicious taboo topics. There feels like less fear to talk about topics that may be contentious. While we may not always agree with each other, kinky people often have a tenancy imo to think outside the square, to be creative and to continually open my mind to new ideas and perspectives, which I absolutely love.
xx Mestra
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COMMING IN 2022
Innovations to Life’s Hierarchy in 2022 will include:
The Confessional
Matchmaking
The Society
Stay tuned!!
RESOURCES CENTRE
Life’s Hierarchy is launching our RESOURCE CENTRE ion 26 January 2022.
Visit RESOURCES and you will find a wealth of information on Dominance and submission and just about every related subject – ALL IN ONE PLACE.
Over time we are intending to build a video library of everything you might ever want to know about Dominance and submission.
If you have resources that you would like to share with fellow members – email lifeshierarchy@gmail.com – and we will post it,.
DISCUSSION TOPICS 2022
We are preparing for an exciting 2022. This will be well and truly reflected in the increased number of discussions and the topics for discussions in 2022.
Here are some of the topics for 2022
Long distance power exchange – making it work.
20 things to know about Dominance and submission.
Maintaining a D/s relationship when you are busy.
Frequently asked D/s Questions.
The psychology of Dominance and submission.
All about sub-drop and aftercare.
When do you interrupt a scene or play session.
Having multiple slaves.
The ethics of secrecy.
The psychology of fetish.
The essential furniture and toys for Ds fun.
This is just the start.
If other tops are of interest to you – yell us – email – lifeshierarchy@gmail.com
TOPICS OF INTEREST
What topics are you interested in hearing about in:
Discussions
Webinars
Forums
Events
Training
Please email us with your suggestions – CLICK HERE
HAVE YOUR SAY – AND CAUSE CHANGE
Each month we will ask two questions we would like members to answer so that we can continually improve Life’s Hierarchy.
To answer these questions and cause change – simply email lifeshierarchy@gmail.com
1. What could be done to increase how often you visit the Life’s Hierarchy website?
2. What could be done to make the Life’s Hierarchy site easier to use?
MENTORING FOR SOCIETY MEMBERS
Society or premium Members can nominate a preferred mentor. Monthly mentoring sessions of 20-minute durations can then be scheduled on a monthly basis – or more frequently as required. This service is available to Dominant, submissive, male, female, heterosexual, bisexual, pansexual and homosexual, monogamous and polyamorous members.
Mentors can:
Provide comfort and support
Answer questions and concerns
Help address issues as they arise
Provide guidance and ideas
Offer a sounding board
Assist in developing a plan
Provide recommended actions
This service is unique to Life’s Hierarchy and exclusive to members of the club. This service is designed to ensure that members get the most out of their involvement in the D/s lifestyle and their various kinks.
No issues are off limits for discussion with mentors.
To find out more – CLICK HERE
CASUAL MENTORING SERVICES
All members can now book Mentoring sessions with one of our 4 Mentors – for a fee of $30.00
All you have to do is go to the SHOP and book a session with your preferred Mentor.
If you are interested in becoming a Mentor and feel you have the experience to support Members, please email – lifeshierarchy@gmail.com and register your interest.
SID D – Moderator