May 2, 2022
MAY – JUNE 2022 PROGRAMME
Podcasts – May 30 and JUNE 30, 2022
Discussion – May 23 and June 21 2022
Webinars – TBC
Next Newsletter – JUNE 20
Blockbuster Blog – May 27 and June 27 2022
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APOLOGY
The April 21 Discussion did not occur because I did not put it in my diary. My apologies. It has been re-scheduled to May 24, 2022
MANAGING A D/S RELATIONSHIP WHEN YOU AREW BUSY.
MY LIFE AS A 24/7 SLAVE – A CONFIDENTIAL DISCUSSION
– JUNE 14.
This is the first in a series of 5 discussions exploring the D/s dynamic of Slave l and her owner SIR D.
A D/s relationship can be enriching. It can also be hard work. A D/s relationship should be fun. It can also be challenging – especially when lived 24/7.
Join this discussion to hear what it is like to live 24/7 as a slave to a demanding owner. Hear about:
How slave ‘’l’’ became a slave.
The training of slave ‘’l’’.
Slave ‘l’’ knowing her place.
The rules and protocols by which slave ‘’l’’ has to live by.
The consequences of not following the rules and protocols.
The challenges slave ‘’l’’ faces each day.
The consequences of being a 24/7 slave.
The joys and rewards of being a 24/7 slave.
You can even ask slave ‘’l’’ questions.
Join us for this controversial and insightful discussion.
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EDITORIAL
Life’s Hierarchy has been moving ahead slowly in the first part of 2022. We hope to move ahead more rapidly over the next three months.
Member suggestions will help us do this. It is your club, so what do you think? What should we be doing to ensure Life’s Hierarchy serves your needs?
Ultimately the success of Life’s Hierarchy will depend on one thing – member engagement. What might cause you to increase your level of engagement with other members.
I am also interested in your thoughts on the monthly Blockbuster Blog. Do you find them interesting and what subjects would you be most interested in?
We are also interested to know what events – online or offline – you might like to attend. What are your thoughts about events?
Finally, on June 21, we have a DISCUSSION entitled – Frequently asked questions about D/s – and some answers. Please send through your questions.
Email me – lifeshierarchy@gmail.com
Thank you.
SIR D
INTRODUCTION TO LIFE’S HIERARCHY – THE VIDEO
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ABOUT A KINK
CHAIN FISTING
I was delighted and intrigued to watch an online webinar on ‘chain fisting’ by The Rabbi (SINagogieBDSM). I’d suggest it was more chain inserting than fisting, nevertheless it was a very interesting. Beyond the obvious consent, pre discussions, and hygiene, pinching seemed to be the biggest negative. Chain needs to be zinc or chrome plated or a strong preference for stainless steel. The chain needs to be checked link by link to remove any burrs and cleaned thoroughly using soap, water and a toothbrush, then dried and soaked in isopropyl alcohol. Chain that doesnt coil (coil proof) was impressed upon us as important. Lube very important, but the kind not so relevant with corn oil and olive oil being strong recommendations.
The sensation for the bottom is enjoying the experience of the chain links being pushed in, the weight of the chain inside and the gentle drawing links out again. The amount of chain inserted is considered important and stops when the bottom feels ‘full’ and/or the Top can’t fit any more in. The Rabbi kept on hand 2 carabiners. One to use to attach to something stable like a table to make sure it didn’t fall on the ground and rush out if he let go of it, the other caribena to mark how much chain had been inserted so he could measure it once the chain had been removed.
Despite the care and quantity of lube, pinching still happened but was reduced by practiced technique and good communication during the scene.
While the scene I watched was on a woman, it can be done on both men and women (for women, both holes, probably not at the same time.)
As always, practice RACK (Rick Aware Consentual Kink) or similar and do your own research before trying something new.
xx Mestra
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TALK TO US
If you have something to say or would like to make a contribution to this newsletter of Life’s Hierarchy – email SIR D at – lifeshierarchy@gmail.com.
COMMING IN 2022
Innovations to Life’s Hierarchy in 2022 will include:
The Confessional
Matchmaking
The Society
Stay tuned!!
RESOURCES CENTRE
Life’s Hierarchy is launching our RESOURCE CENTRE ion 26 January 2022.
Visit RESOURCES and you will find a wealth of information on Dominance and submission and just about every related subject – ALL IN ONE PLACE.
Over time we are intending to build a video library of everything you might ever want to know about Dominance and submission.
If you have resources that you would like to share with fellow members – email lifeshierarchy@gmail.com – and we will post it,.
CASUAL MENTORING SERVICES
All members can now book Mentoring sessions with one of our 4 Mentors – for a fee of $30.00
All you have to do is go to the SHOP and book a session with your preferred Mentor.
If you are interested in becoming a Mentor and feel you have the experience to support Members, please email – lifeshierarchy@gmail.com and register your interest.
DISCUSSION TOPICS 2022
We are preparing for an exciting 2022. This will be well and truly reflected in the increased number of discussions and the topics for discussions in 2022.
Here are some of the topics for 2022
Long distance power exchange – making it work.
20 things to know about Dominance and submission.
Maintaining a D/s relationship when you are busy.
Frequently asked D/s Questions.
The psychology of Dominance and submission.
All about sub-drop and aftercare.
When do you interrupt a scene or play session.
Having multiple slaves.
The ethics of secrecy.
The psychology of fetish.
The essential furniture and toys for Ds fun.
This is just the start.
If other tops are of interest to you – yell us – email – lifeshierarchy@gmail.com
TOPICS OF INTEREST
What topics are you interested in hearing about in:
Discussions
Webinars
Forums
Events
Training
Please email us with your suggestions – CLICK HERE
HAVE YOUR SAY – AND CAUSE CHANGE
Each month we will ask two questions we would like members to answer so that we can continually improve Life’s Hierarchy.
To answer these questions and cause change – simply email lifeshierarchy@gmail.com
1. What could be done to increase how often you visit the Life’s Hierarchy website?
2. What could be done to make the Life’s Hierarchy site easier to use?
MENTORING FOR SOCIETY MEMBERS
Society or premium Members can nominate a preferred mentor. Monthly mentoring sessions of 20-minute durations can then be scheduled on a monthly basis – or more frequently as required. This service is available to Dominant, submissive, male, female, heterosexual, bisexual, pansexual and homosexual, monogamous and polyamorous members.
Mentors can:
Provide comfort and support
Answer questions and concerns
Help address issues as they arise
Provide guidance and ideas
Offer a sounding board
Assist in developing a plan
Provide recommended actions
This service is unique to Life’s Hierarchy and exclusive to members of the club. This service is designed to ensure that members get the most out of their involvement in the D/s lifestyle and their various kinks.
No issues are off limits for discussion with mentors.
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SID D – Moderator