October 2021

OCTOBER/NOVEMBER PROGRAMME
Podcasts – October 30
Discussion – November 22 
Webinars – October 25 and November 20
Next Newsletter – November 20 
Blockbuster Blog – October 27 and November 27 S
See a whole lot more on Life’s Hierarchy – CLICK HERE

LIVE EVENT

LIVE discussion group – Life’s Hierarchy members only!!

1. Bringing your authentic self to a D/s relationship.
2. Beginning a Power Exchange relationship 

October 31, 2021
3.30 pm
THE NOOK – Dome, Railway Parade, Maylands

Places limited – be there or be square

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NEW SERVICES FOR MEMBERS

From November 01, 2021, all members can watch all WEBINARS and PODCASTS; and get involved in online DISCUSSIONS – FREE OF CHARGE
Just click and watch!

From November 01, 2021, all members will also be able to track all conversations of interest. This will make engagement with other members so much easier. 

FEATURED STORY

Blindfolded and Laying in a Cage he was Ready to Serve

The room was warm, not by accident, but for comfort. The lounge room was open, eerily without furniture save for a cage in the middle of the room. The house had been sold and was awaiting settlement, so an evening of opportunity. Not to say that the evening wasn’t organised, She had planned it down to the last detail, weeks in the preparation.

The cage was covered by a red silk sheet, and topped with a fur rug, both with a hole in the middle. Inside, the man lay on his side, naked, blindfolded, collared, his knees tucked up to fit the space. He laid still having been there for quite a while. Probably only 15 min, but it felt like an hour. He was filled with apprehension, and anticipation. He had no idea what to expect and his mind was racing with the possibilities.

His heart skipped a beat, what was that sound? He held his breath as he felt Her presence enter the room. How did he know She was there? Maybe it was the slightest movement of the floor, or the briefest flutter of movement of the sheet above him.

He waited patiently then heard two taps of her cane on the cage .. that was his signal, he scrambled into position and placed his face against the top of the cage, face up through the hole in the cage and sheet and blanket, mouth open, tongue at the ready.

He felt and heard her move into position as she placed her mouth over his face and he lapped happily and eagerly. She ground over his face until he felt her orgasm. He lapped up her juices, and he let our a little desperate moan as he felt her move away. A single tap of her cane on the cage and he scrambled back into his original position. He lay there and then smiled, enjoying the smell of her and taste of her lingering on his tongue, on his lips, and on his face

The front door opened and closed. Who was there? 2 taps of the cane, without time to consider what was happening he scrambled into position, face up mouth open, tongue ready. Delighted he recognised the tip of a nice large cock touching his tongue. Enthusiastically he took the cock in his mouth and started sucking. Sucking and licking and gagging as the cock pushed down the back of his throat. It wasn’t comfortable in the cage, but he didn’t mind. He was ecstatic. Sucking and gagging. Licking and sucking. Deeper, then lighter, then deeper without warning.

Just as he could feel the cock in his mouth start to stiffen, he heard the single tap of the cane…he scrambled back into position as he heard the owner of the cock groan in dismay as his orgasm was denied, and the delighted chuckle from his Mistress. His own cock was already hard from making his Mistress orgasm, and cock sucking, but it twitched again in response to Her laugh. He was so turned on when She laughed at him, humiliated him, and apparently when She laughed at other men too. He listened to the movements around the room and the heard his Mistress instruct the cock owner, “Peter, lay down on the blanket by the window, keep quiet, keep yourself hard but don’t cum.”

He heard the front door again, open and close. He waited, his breathing quickening in anticipation … two taps. He scrambled up and as he opened his mouth the cock was thrust in. A slender, long cock. He sucked and twirled his tongue furiously, trying to give his best efforts to this blow job. Focused. Sucking hard, then varying it, slowing down, then speeding up again. He could feel this cock harden, he heard the cock owner breath become ragged then … tap went the cane. God, She was good. She laughed again, a delightful evil chuckle. “Rob lay next to Peter, keep yourself hard, stay quiet”.

The minutes ticked past. He could here the gentle slapping of the guys as they kept themselves hard .. he could hear their laboured breathing. he imagined Her watching them, he know the contented smile that would be on Her face as She watched them.

The door opened and closed. He leapt into position, ready and eager to accept the new cock or pussy, CRACK, the whip cracked right near his right ear. He froze, CRACK, than one hit his shoulder blade sending a jolt through his body, suddenly his brain whirred back into action. He hadn’t waited for the tap of the cane …

He scrambled back to his laying down position, frozen in place waiting to see if his punishment was over or if it was going to continue. He heard the door to the cage swing open violently, and as Her hand reached in and grabbed the loop on the front of his collar and dragged him out of the cage, he whimpered quietly.

She hissed in his ear “you broke My rules’. She was smiling though, he could tell. She had set him up for this punishment, knowing how excited he would be. Perhaps he should have been scared or nervous, but he was too excited, he was rock hard and dripping precum.

She dragged him across the room, half standing, half crawling and he landed on top of one of the previous men, he felt Her hand against the back of his head forcing his mouth back over the cock that had been kept hard as instructed. He put in his best efforts, singularity focussed on his new job. It was Peter, the nice large cock. He was so focussed that he was completely unaware of Robs hand reaching out and grabbing hold of his cock and slowly starting to pump it. He groaned with delight. The. thwack, the cane cracked across his ass. He gasped with pain, but it was only momentary and it was followed by a rush of endorphins and arousal. He wiggled against his hand job, and sped up his sucking. Thwack went the cane on his ass again. Thwack, thwack, thwack. He waited for the last one, She always caned in lots of six. Thwack. His ass stung, in a beautiful way. She rubbed her hands across his ass, soothing the welts. She rubbed, squeezed his ass cheeks, and gave them soft little taps with her palms.. He wriggled with pleasure, still sucking, his jaw starting to ache. He could no longer keep the suction because of his sore jaw, so drool was dribbling out the sides of his mouth and he continued to bob up and down.

She rubbed and squeezed his ass, then her hands started moving between his legs, she cupped his balls giving them a gentle squeeze. Then a caress. Her hand returned to between his ass cheeks and he felt a dollop of lube land on the top of his ass and start sliding down his crack. She used the lube to cover her finger and gently slid it into his ass. He pushed back against her finger willing her to push harder and faster, but she continued at Her own pace, slowly and gently, twisting and sliding then stopped. He was disappointed as She left his ass empty, the attention ending all too quickly. A hand grabbed his waist. It wasn’t Hers, it was a man’s hand. He felt a cock sliding up and down his ass crack and then push against his lubed ass. He pushed back against it, easing it in. He knew it was all over now, a few strokes and he would be finished. His grunts and moans filled the room and set off all three men. Pete first, gasped and shot out a mouthful of cum. He swallowed it while cumming himself and the contractions of his ass set off Rob who groaned as he squeezed the last few strokes in as he filled up the willing ass.

The men all collapsed in a pile to the sound of Her soft and low checkles. She gentle removed his blindfold and as he became accustomed to the bright light, he looked around the room. Peter and Rob gave him a wry smike and knowing nods, he looked across at another man in the room who was sitting in a lounge chair enjoyed the voyeurism of the evening and looked over to his Mistress, sitting on the floor nearby. He crawled over and put his head in her lap as snuggled into Her as she cooed at him and ran Her fingers through her hair.

He felt like just about the luckiest and most content person in the whole world. All because of Her.

MsStories

TOPICS OF INTEREST 

What topics are you interested in hearing about in:
Discussions
Webinars
Forums
Events
Training
Please email us with your suggestions – CLICK HERE

HAVE YOUR SAY – AND CAUSE CHANGE

Each month we will ask two questions we would like members to answer so that we can continually improve Life’s Hierarchy.

To answer these questions and cause change – simply email lifeshierarchy@gmail.com

1. What could be done to increase how often you visit the Life’s Hierarchy website?

2. What could be done to make the Life’s Hierarchy site easier to use?

INTERESTING VIDEO

Each month we will post an interesting video. Here is this month’s offering – CLICK HERE

Life’s Hierarchy will be developing a resource centre with many such videos.

HOST A WEBINAR OR DISCUSSION

If you would like to host a WEBINAR or DISCUSSION, register your interest by emailing lifeshierarchy@gmail.com. Tell us the topic and we will see of we can incorporate you into our programme for the year. We can also provide the technology and audience. 

A THOUGHT FROM MESTRA

Creating Your Community

While many BDSM activities can (and should) be practiced within a private setting, many require a bigger audience. Exhibitionism, voyeurism, group activities and play, skill shares, discussion groups, High Protocol Dinners and the like. To do this comfortably and safely (with consent, respect and discretion) you need to find ‘your tribe’. Your group of people that share the groups values.
 
Sites like Fetlife aren’t so much a community as a group of people with a shared interest. Life’s Hierarchy aims to create a more selective group of people, and then Life’s Hierarchy ‘Groups’ provide the opportunity to create your own community. A shared space for people with shared interests and values to communicate, and plan events.  The Groups function allows you to have shared conversations within that group, have open forum style conversations and advertise upcoming events and information.
 
Have a look at the existing groups and see if there’s something that interests you. If not, groups can be created by any member and can be private or public. Try creating a group and inviting some friends, and gradually expanding the group through friends of friends, and people whom you’ve vetted to ensure they match your groups ethos. Be clear yourself about the requirements of the group. Perhaps you require each member to have done a certain about of research before joining, perhaps they need to live in a certain area to attend events, perhaps personal responsibility is critical for your group, perhaps it’s a shared interest in a particular interest.
 
Creating your tribe can take time, so get started now and you’ll reap the rewards in the future. If you’ve got an idea and would like some help, contact one of the Life’s Hierarchy Mentors for some guidance.

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PODCAST

Listen to the latest MY LIFE MY WAY interview – with WIZARD.

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There are many more just like this on the Life’s Hierarchy site

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WANT TO BE INTERVIEWED FOR A PODCAST?

Every month, I will try to record at least two interviews with Members to be published on the site as a podcast. The identity of the Members is of course kept confidential. 

Interviews are audio only and take about 45 minutes to record. The resulting podcasts are available to all members and represent an excellent may of sharing experiences.

If you are happy to be interviewed and to reveal your deepest secrets – please email me on –  lifeshierarchy@gmail.com 

BLOCK BUSTER BLOGS

Watch out for the Life’s Hierarchy Block Buster Blog on the 27th of each months. 

Take a look – CLICK HERE

CASUAL MENTORING SERVICES

All members can now book Mentoring sessions with one of our 4 Mentors – for a fee of $30.00
All you have to do is go to the SHOP and book a session with your preferred Mentor.

If you are interested in becoming a Mentor and feel you have the experience to support Members, please email – lifeshierarchy@gmail.com and register your interest.

MENTORING FOR SOCIETY MEMBERS

Society or premium  Members can nominate a preferred mentor. Monthly mentoring sessions of 20-minute durations can then be scheduled on a monthly basis – or more frequently as required. This service is available to Dominant, submissive, male, female, heterosexual,  bisexual, pansexual and homosexual, monogamous and polyamorous members.

Mentors can:
Provide comfort and support
Answer questions and concerns
Help address issues as they arise
Provide guidance and ideas
Offer a sounding board
Assist in developing a plan
Provide recommended actions
This service is unique to Life’s Hierarchy and exclusive to members of the club. This service is designed to ensure that members get the most out of their involvement in the D/s lifestyle and their various kinks.

No issues are off limits for discussion with mentors.

To find out more – CLICK HERE

FORUM FOR MEMBERS

So really interesting conversations are underway on the Club FORUM. Have a look, post a comment or open your own discussion. It is easy and it is fun – CLICK HERE 

MEMBER SERVICES

 MEMBER services currently available include:
Forums – where you can discuss anything of interest
Stories – reading and writing great true and not so true stories
Group chat- chat with Club members in absolute privacy
Podcasts – learn more about the ins and outs of the D/s lifestyle
Discussions – listen to experienced players discuss their experiences
Webinars – an online learning programme
Opportunities – listings of opportunities for members in the community
Shop – where you can buy an increasing number of high-quality goods
Mentoring – one to one conversations with experienced senior members
 Services to be launched in 2021 include:
 Confessionals – the opportunity to confess and do penance
Gallery – the best Club photographs and videos
Match Making – to help you find play and life partners
Suggestions regarding additional services are most welcome.
Members are the heart and soul of Life’s Hierarchy and as such feedback from members is always welcome. Email – lifeshierarchy@gmail.com . Every enquiry will receive a response.
 
CODE OF CONDUCT

 It is the ambition of the Mentors (the foundation Committee) to develop Life’s Hierarchy into a Club that adds real value to members of the BDSM community and devotees of Dominance and submission. Our highest priority will always be the welfare of our members and in particular their safety, security and privacy. Please bring to our attention any behaviour inconsistent with Club values. Those values include:
Discretion
Respect
Honesty
Honour
Consent
 Read more about our values and protocols – all designed to protect members – CLICK HERE 

SID D – Moderator